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Claire MacMarquis
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January 09, 2020

The Misunderstood Art of Wellness and What To Do About It

Well, it’s the magic month of January when thoughts turn to getting fit, giving up meat, new resolutions and getting away, somewhere where the daily cares of managing work and home can be left behind for a week or two and batteries can be recharged bodies and minds refreshed yada, yada, yada but can you just do that or does it need a teeny bit of a plan?

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What exactly is wellness?

Wellness is generally used to describe a state beyond the absence of illness, it’s been an area that has been ripe for quackery over the years – it isn’t new, the concept of treating the ‘whole person’ started in the 19th century and has a sound, logical basis.  It got all caught up with pseudo-scientific health inventions along the way but at its core it’s a good idea.  Look at it this way.  Your body is a machine; a bit of robotics, a bit of computing, quite a lot of bio mechanics etc etc.  Like any other machine it needs occasional maintenance to be kept in good order so this is the maintenance piece. And August, when large chunks of the world are going absent is a good time to do it.  And, most importantly, this shouldn’t be a chore, another thing to do.  This should be some serious ‘me time’. So enjoy it.

 

The Seven Areas of Wellness

 

Wellness is commonly viewed as having seven dimensions. Each dimension contributes to our own sense of wellness or quality of life, and each affects and overlaps the others. At times one may be more prominent than others, but neglect of any one dimension for any length of time has adverse effects on overall health – that came from The Grand Rapids Community College in the USA, to whom I am indebted for some of the other observations that follow but here they are:

 

  • Physical
  • Emotional
  • Intellectual
  • Social
  • Spiritual
  • Environmental
  • Occupational

 

Being well in a holistic sense means balancing all parts of the machine.  Wellness is often thought of as physical alone.  Whilst that’s an important part of being well it’s only a part of it.  The other dimensions of our being need attention too. 

 

The reality of our lives is that automation and computerisation have resulted in those of us in managerial and leadership roles no longer going to work.  Work now comes to us, wherever we are and if you’re in a global business like travel, hospitality, meeting and events whenever it chooses.  Planned and scheduled downtimes don’t happen any longer.  We’re ‘always on’ and that will wear any machine out in time.  Equally the pace at which we now work doesn’t always allow time for reflection and thought.  Responses are needed so quickly that often as not they‘re automatic and pre-programmed.  It’s easy to lose the skill of inquisitive and curious thought in the rush to clear an inbox by any means as it is to forget to talk to the people behind the issues at the top of your inbox today.

 

So, here is the definitive guide to being well this summer brought to you:

 

Seven dimensions to wellness

 

Physical Dimension

Physical wellness encompasses a variety of healthy behaviours including adequate exercise, proper nutrition and abstaining from harmful habits such as drug use and alcohol abuse. It means learning about and identifying symptoms of disease, getting regular medical check-ups – men in particular, we are so much worse than women at doing this, as well as protecting yourself from injuries and harm. Developing such healthy habits today will not only add years to your life but will enhance the enjoyment and quality of those years.

 

Tips for optimal physical wellness:

 

  • Exercise daily, doesn’t matter what you do, walk instead of drive, run, ride a bike if you can. Go to a gym, swim.  Anything that makes you breathe a bit harder and/or sweat a little bit.  Making your heart work harder in controlled periods will bring your idling pulse down and literally extend your life expectancy.  We all have a bout 2 billion heartbeats in our genetic closet.  Getting your idling pulse down will make you live longer and feel better (up to a point, if you fall under a bus tomorrow don’t blame me!)
  • Get adequate rest, seven hours kip per day is recommended
  • Use seat belts, helmets, and other protective equipment, like duhhh!
  • Learn to recognize early signs of illness. Don’t ignore these n the hope they will go away. They won’t. Problems diagnosed early can usually be cured or controlled.  Those left late rarely can
  • Eat a variety of healthy foods.  It was Oscar Wilde who said, ‘Everything in moderation, including moderation’ and he was spot on.  Try to go for 70% proteins, 20% carbs and 10% fats and earn your carbs.  If you exercise rebalance proteins and carbs a bit, if you have a pool or beach day, keep them down
  • Control your meal portions. Stop when you’re no longer hungry, not when the plate is empty
  • Stop smoking and protect yourself against second-hand smoke – see duhhh!
  • Use alcohol in moderation – see Oscar Wilde

 

Emotional Dimension

Emotional wellness is a dynamic state that fluctuates frequently with your other six dimensions of wellness. Being emotionally well is typically defined as possessing the ability to feel and express human emotions such as happiness, sadness and anger. It means having the ability to love and be loved and achieving a sense of fulfilment in life. Emotional wellness encompasses optimism, self-esteem, self-acceptance and the ability to share feelings.

 

Tips for optimal emotional wellness:

 

  • Tune-in to your thoughts and feelings. Objectivity is great for decision making but it can bury the fact that every now and then we have to do things we don’t like or perhaps agree with. Well that’s life but don’t bury these emotions so that they fester away.  Again, women are better at this than men so (men) learn from them
  • Cultivate an optimistic attitude. Glass half full or half empty.  Find what’s good in an argument/person/idea before you rubbish it. Look for the good in people before you rubbish them and understand or try to their motivation in what they are saying or doing rather than just dismissing it out of hand
  • Seek and provide support. Be there for family, friends and colleagues and don’t make a song and dance about it
  • Learn time management skills; here’s a few; OHIO - Only handle it once. Separate the urgent from the important and makes sure you allocate time to the important every day. Switch your devices off when you’re in downtime mode.  The world won’t end because you don’t answer your emails in a nanosecond.  Realistically if you don’t want to come back from a week away to two hundred unread emails turn on for one hour a day and that’s it. Just like those old ISDN days when It wasn’t an option!
  • Practice stress management techniques. Basically, exercise really hard for a short period to burn the adrenalin that stress produces and learn to decompress, deep breathing for two whole minutes is a good start when the stress levels explode
  • Accept and forgive yourself. You’re better than you think and when you look back twenty years from now you will not believe how good you looked or how good you were.

 

Intellectual Dimension

The intellectual dimension encourages creative, stimulating mental activities. Our minds need to be continually inspired and exercised just as our bodies do. People who possess a high level of intellectual wellness have an active mind are curious, interesting themselves because they continue to learn. An intellectually well person uses the resources available to expand his or her knowledge and improve their skills. Most of our intellectual stimulation comes from work but that shouldn’t be the end of it.  Having a thought through view on current events and developing a skill in things you find of interest are all worthy candidates.

 

Tips and suggestions for optimal intellectual wellness include:

 

  • Take a course or workshop in something that interests you
  • Learn (or perfect) a foreign language.  Be careful here, if you don’t want to get posted to Moscow don’t become the Cyrillic expert in the firm!
  • Seek out people who challenge you intellectually
  • Read widely.  Take a leaf out of the politician’s book and read those publications you don’t agree with as well as those you do.  How else will you really get to grips with the other side of the argument?
  • Take an advanced course in the area of work in which you’re involved.  Become the go to, subject matter expert in your field but don’t do this at the expense of all of the other intellectual opportunities around you
  • Do something unexpected and out of your comfort zone.  A bit of Amdram?  A poetry circle? A parachute jump?

 

Social Dimension

Social wellness refers to our ability to interact successfully in our global community and to live up to the expectations and demands of our personal roles. This means learning good communication skills, developing intimacy with others, and creating a support network of friends and family members.

 

Social wellness includes showing respect for others and yourself. Contributing to your community and to the world builds a sense of belonging.

 

Tips and suggestions for optimal social wellness include:

 

  • Cultivate healthy relationships with family, friends and colleagues.  If your life is a constant battleground (Mr. Trump?) something’s wrong
  • Give something back. Find a charity that is active in things that are important or interesting to you and help them out.  Do some pro bono work once in a while.  Drive old people to their hospital appointments etc. Lots of ways to do this.
  • Share your talents and skills. Teach someone or a group to do tings you’re good at.  It could be teaching your granny to build a simple excel sheet or your kids to do non linear equations or how to write a well-constructed letter, a rapidly disappearing skill.

 

Spiritual Dimension

Spiritual wellness involves possessing a set of guiding beliefs, principles, or values that help give direction to one's life. It encompasses a high level of faith, hope and commitment to your individual beliefs that provide a sense of meaning and purpose. It is willingness to seek meaning and purpose in human existence, to question everything and to appreciate the things which cannot be readily explained or understood.

 

A spiritually well person seeks harmony between what lies within as well as the forces outside.

 

Tips and suggestions for optimal spiritual wellness:

 

  • Explore your spiritual core. It may be religious, it may be humanist.  It doesn’t matter.
  • Spend time alone/meditate regularly by which I mean concentrate on one thing and don’t be distracted from it.  This is incredibly hard, try it for one minute.  One thought, no other.
  • Be inquisitive and curious. Einstein came upon the theory of relativity by idly wondering, whilst lying on his back in a field, whether the ray of sunlight that peeped out of a cloud could bend.
  • Listen with your heart and live by your principles. Some things are black and white, right or wrong. Don’t do bad stuff and don’t let anyone persuade you that black is white
  • Allow yourself and those around you the freedom to be who they are. Your beliefs are your beliefs.  So are everyone else’s.
  • See opportunities for growth in the challenges life brings you – see glass half full

 

Environmental Wellness

Environmental wellness is an awareness of the unstable state of the earth and the effects of your daily habits on the physical environment. It consists of maintaining a way of life that maximizes harmony with the earth and minimizes harm to the environment. It includes being involved in socially responsible activities to protect the environment.

 

Tips and suggestions for optimal environmental wellness:

 

  • Stop using single use plastics. Get a water bottle you refill. Don’t use plastic straws or bags, take a Tupperware box to the butcher/fishmonger and take food home in that.
  • Conserve water and other resources.  Shower don’t bath. Don’t leave taps running while you brush your teeth. Turn off all of the red dot equipment you have when not using them
  • Minimize use of harmful chemicals and look for non-invasive ways of replacing them
  • Reduce, Reuse, Recycle. Be a militant recycler
  • Plant a tree a year

 

Occupational Dimension

Occupational/Vocational wellness involves preparing and making use of your gifts, skills, and talents in order to gain purpose, happiness, and enrichment in your life. The development of occupational satisfaction and wellness is related to your attitude about your work. Achieving optimal occupational wellness allows you to maintain a positive attitude and experience satisfaction/pleasure in your employment. Occupational wellness means successfully integrating a commitment to your occupation into a total lifestyle that is satisfying and rewarding.

 

Tips and suggestions for optimal occupational wellness include:

 

  • Explore a variety of career options. You’re in charge of your career nobody else
  • Create a vision for your future. This is simply taking control but to do that you need to know what it is you want to do/be/achieve.  Have you devoted the intellectual time to do that?
  • Choose a career that suits your personality, interests and talents. See duhhh!
  • Be open to change and learn new skills. AI is going to change all of our lives.  Will it destroy 47% of all jobs as is presently mooted? Maybe but it will create for more.  Make sure you’re open to and aware of the changes that these will require and don’t get left behind
  • If all else fails try calling in well. Most people call in sick once in a while. Try calling in well, ’I’m not coming to work today and I feel great’.  This must be closely followed by your resignation so use it very sparingly!

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